How to Love Yourself?

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SELF LOVE

Loving oneself.

                   Which will not happen by saying “I LOVE YOU’ to yourself while standing in front of a mirror. That’s completely fooling yourself.

                   Self Love is not being beautiful. Even the prettiest and the most good looking people we know struggle to love themselves. It’s also not getting all the materialistic things. Even the wealthiest people we know don’t respect themselves.

                   Self Love is loving oneself from within.

                   Self Love is never never judging oneself.

                   Self Love is working on your dreams.

 

                   Let’s understand this deeply.

                   SELF LOVE , “self” and “love” ,

                   What is love basically?

                   Let’s take one example of anyone in your life who loves you. [ Mother, Father, a friend, a sibling, spouse, a lover or anyone]

                   If that person truly loves you, then that person will  never :

1.     Think negative for you.

2.   Judge you.

3.   Criticise you.

4.   Blame you.

5.    Betray you

6.   Harm/ Hurt you.

7.    Choose someone else over you.

8.   Delay your wants and dreams.

9.   Procrastinate on you.

10.                      Give up on you.

11.Make a plan for you and then not follow it.

12.                      Say I love you without feeling it from within.

And much more… [ which ofcourse many of us can relate]

 

Rather, that person will :

1.     Think positive for you.

2.   Listen to you and empathize you.

3.   Support you.

4.   Be kind to you.

5.    Cry for you.

6.   Take care of you.

7.    Choose you.

8.   Help you follow your dreams.

9.   Ask you to do the first things first.

10.                      Never give up on you but will love you even more when you’re in trouble.

11.Help you work on all the plans you’ve.

12.                      Say I love you by feeling it from within.

                   And most importantly, that person will feel so grateful and lucky that you exist.

                   Ask yourself, do you love yourself and do all the things stated above?

                   Love is the most beautiful and strongest energy in the universe.

                   As a famous philosopher once said,

                   “ Love is the most powerful and still most unknown energy in the world.”

Cosmic Hands by unknown artist : VisionaryArt

 If we all start loving ourselves, we’ll become a very strong magnet which attracts more love. Just like loving someone is tough but in the same place the most amazing feeling, loving yourself is the same. It takes courage and will power to love yourself.

                   Start doing all the things you’ve always wanted to do for yourself. You’ll be surprised by the results. You’ll start feeling proud of you. Keep making a small goal and then achieve it just to feel proud of yourself.

                   “ Love, because when you love you’re using the greatest power in the universe.”                       - Rhonda Byrne

 

And always remember, you’ve unlimited reasons within you  to love.

                   Share this with someone you love.

 

 


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